Always Remember ✨
Always remember you're going to make mistakes in your life. No one is perfect and not everyone is going to agree with your actions, your decisions, words you've spoken or even written. I'm not saying that this justifies all the mistakes you've made. There will be decisions or words that may haunt you every night - they will. What i've learnt is that some of these decisions made - they can lead to drastic changes in life. A lost of a friend, a change in life's path, or sometimes fork in the road. Don't beat yourself up for what has already happened. Learn from the mistakes and learn how you can be better person than before.
It's very different when you're a player and a spectator. It really is. As a spectator, we think or we might think that we know everything. We anticipate moves, we're strong headed and minded on our views of the situation & sometimes we forget, we forget that we're not a player. We are not in the game, we're merely watching. As a player, it's a world different. As a player, the decisions that are made were made fit to that situation. Feelings, thoughts, emotions - you're a mess. There are many strings to a puppet, and sadly, to fully function all the strings needs to move in a sync. No one will truly understand the emotions, thoughts that are running through your mind at 2am in the morning. They won't. Only you do. Spectators think they've got it all figured out, but they don't. Sometimes they grow a huge fit when a player screws up, and forfeits a match. Same as life, you can give someone advice, but never think you know what they're going through, because you don't. Never assume, never judge, because one day you might yourself in the same situation as they are (just 10 times worst).
Nicely expressed
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